About Jordan

Jordan is a Licensed Professional Counselor and the founder of Rock Your Marriage. He graduated from The Citadel with his BA in Psychology and then went on to receive his MA in Counseling from Colorado Christian University. He lives in Colorado Springs, CO with his wife and their two boys.

Don’t Play in the Septic Tank

By |2019-03-16T22:18:51-06:00December 27th, 2018|Blog|

I had a friend from Dallas Theological Seminary ask if she could do a Prepare / Enrich marital assessment on my wife and me for a class that she was taking. We gladly agreed. Knowing that my friend is a very competent counselor, I knew she would pick up on some of the reoccurring “trouble” [...]

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Making Marriage More Than Kids

By |2018-12-19T14:59:33-07:00December 19th, 2018|Blog|

The transition from “married” to “married with children” challenges our goal to build a God-centered marriage instead of a me-centered or child-centered marriage. It is difficult to avoid the dangers of spouse-neglect or self-neglect. We should explore ways to parent together as a team, and find balance in the middle of the busyness. The transition [...]

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How to Be the Best Gift Giver

By |2019-03-16T22:19:10-06:00December 22nd, 2013|Rock Your Marriage|

Are you exhausted yet? It’s the 22nd of December… And time is running out for last minute shopping. Come on now. Can you really say you gave it your all? Did you pull out all the stops to make sure everyone on your list got exactly the right gift? Fear not, faithful Christmas warrior, because [...]

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How to Make Your Spouse Fall in Love With You

By |2019-03-16T22:19:10-06:00December 14th, 2013|Rock Your Marriage|

I’m just gonna wing this. I’ve done all the research I can stomach. I’ve been to every “fall in love again” website I can take, and read a hundred ways to “bring the romance back.” Wouldn’t you love to have a sure-fire way to keep the fire smoking in your relationship? So would I. So [...]

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Kind of Wrong

By |2019-03-16T22:19:10-06:00November 24th, 2013|Rock Your Marriage|

By now, I think an extremely significant portion of the internet-using population has read the article, “Marriage Isn’t For You.” Seth Adam Smith, a more or less professional blogger, has some great points about what pop culture thinks marriage is, and what it actually should be. But I’m here to say that I think there’s [...]

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Is It Meaningless?

By |2019-03-16T22:19:11-06:00November 18th, 2013|Rock Your Marriage|

It’s one of those weeks where my thoughts get jumbled in the emotional end-of-the-year chaos, for many reasons. Holidays can tend to make me unstable and random. My normal ADD seems to be worse than usual. I dive into something. I immerse myself in some project that completely distracts me from the dark emptiness trying [...]

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‘Tis the Season

By |2019-03-16T22:19:11-06:00November 10th, 2013|Rock Your Marriage|

Forgive me in advance for my candor and potentially harsh words. But if they do not apply to you, please take them for what they’re worth. Honestly, some people may think it’s to early to think about Christmas. I saw some Christmas lights up the weekend after Halloween. People love to get cozy by the [...]

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To Forgive

By |2019-03-16T22:19:11-06:00November 3rd, 2013|Rock Your Marriage|

It’s my third time reading The Shack, and I learn something new every time I read it. This particular time I was struck by the details of forgiveness. Without giving away spoilers, suffice it to say there is an offense committed against the main character, Mac, and he must cope with his offender’s actions. God [...]

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