How to Be Less Offended in Your Marriage

By |2019-09-19T17:31:21-06:00September 19th, 2019|Blog|

Buying a house, moving, a new job, bringing home a new baby, or going back to school are just some of the life changes that can cause change or tension in a marriage. During these times, we can often be easily offended by something our spouse says or does. When we find ourselves in this [...]

How to Stay Close During Times of Transition

By |2019-08-21T17:05:50-06:00August 21st, 2019|Blog|

Although the weather is still very hot in Arizona and will likely be throughout early October, change is in the air. I can tell that the sun is shifting, and the days are getting a tad shorter. There’s just a little more than a month until fall, with the first official day being September 23rd. [...]

Finding Marriage Mentors

By |2019-07-17T15:34:05-06:00July 17th, 2019|Blog|

Last week our family visited our home state where we spent time with family and friends. We moved away thirteen years ago and enjoy going back to visit a few times each year.   One special treat among many we enjoyed this trip was visiting with my cousin and his wife. Before we got married, [...]

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Your Marriage and the Enneagram

By |2019-06-19T12:50:39-06:00June 19th, 2019|Blog|

Have you heard of the Enneagram test? Although it has been around for years, it has recently gained popularity, particularly among Christian communicators. It’s a personality assessment that has nine numbers or personality types. It’s not a Christian test, but so many Christians find it useful when we use it as a tool to better [...]

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Which Type of Processor Do You Have? (Part II)

By |2019-05-22T20:39:20-06:00May 22nd, 2019|Blog|

I hope you enjoyed Part I of this series about how we often have different processing methods than our spouse. Here’s Part II. I’ve recently been reading Emily P. Freeman’s latest book The Next Right Thing*. It’s so good. I also listen to her podcast by the same name. In a recent episode, she talked [...]

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If Life Is Your Mission…Never Abort

By |2019-05-12T14:43:02-06:00May 12th, 2019|Blog|

Martha and I sat waiting for the doctor to come in. As he entered, I instantly read his body language and knew that the news was not good. He said Martha had large cell lymphoma and needed to undergo eight of the harshest rounds of chemotherapy he could give her.  This news was a shock [...]

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Which Type of Processor Do You Have? (Part I)

By |2019-05-22T20:38:14-06:00April 18th, 2019|Blog|

I’m no techie, but I know that when you’re buying a computer, the type of processor you get matters. You want to get the latest and greatest because it’s likely the quickest and most efficient.   As I type, I can see a sticker near my keyboard that states the manufacturer name and title of [...]

Chatting About Chores

By |2019-03-19T21:07:46-06:00March 19th, 2019|Blog|

Have you ever watched the show Everybody Loves Raymond? It’s a hilarious sit-com from the early 2000s about a married sportswriter who is raising a family across the street from his parents in Long Island, New York. I highly recommend it, it’s hilarious! You can likely find re-runs on TV or rent episodes on Prime [...]

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A Change of Perspective

By |2019-03-16T22:18:51-06:00February 20th, 2019|Blog|

Does your spouse ever do things that get on your nerves? Come on, let’s be honest.   And guess what? It’s a two-way street: you do things that get on your spouse’s nerves too. We all have idiosyncrasies and habits that bother one another because we’re all wired differently.   Instead of focusing on the [...]

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Marriage for Dummies that Want to Be Smart

By |2019-03-16T22:18:51-06:00February 7th, 2019|Blog|

I lost my wife to cancer at age 30, and was left with two small children. I had a lot of time to reflect on the subject of marriage. I came to realize how valuable marriage is, and truly began to look at marriage from God’s perspective. Now, after 30 years of being a marriage [...]

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