Have you ever said something to your spouse that you wished you wouldn’t have? Or have you ever said something your spouse you knew needed saying, but the timing wasn’t right? Of course you have, … Read More
Why You Do What You Do
When we first got married, my husband used to tease me. Whether I was loading the dishwasher or making a sandwich, he’d giggle and say, “You do that just like your parents.” I would respond, … Read More
The Importance of Being Honest
My husband and I had been married about five years and we decided it was time for a marriage tune up. As we sat down on the couch in the counselor’s office, I was surprised … Read More
What Would It Be Like to be Married to You
Have you ever wished you could trade places with someone, to see what life would be like through their eyes? Movies like “Freaky Friday,” where a mother and daughter switch places, are fun to watch. … Read More
The Languages of Apology
I heard Dr. Gary Chapman on a podcast recently giving advice about marriage and family. One of the hosts, who raved about his book The Five Love Languages, asked him how to improve her relationship with … Read More
Complaints to Compliments
Being married to someone means that you see the best side of them. It also means that you see the worst, and everything in between. Sometimes we keep track of the things our spouse does … Read More
Enjoy the Seasons of Marriage
Happy Summer! If you’ve been around here awhile, you might notice that I often refer to Dr. Gary Chapman’s books. They are so helpful in navigating relationships, aren’t they? In April’s post, I wrote about … Read More
Relational Intimacy: Needed Now Like Never Before
Today we face many challenges, but none are bigger than a lack of intimate relationships; I do not mean physical intimacy but relational and emotional intimacy, which is characterized by love and trust. This is … Read More
Your Marriage and the Enneagram
Have you heard of the Enneagram test? Although it has been around for years, it has recently gained popularity, particularly among Christian communicators. It’s a personality assessment that has nine numbers or personality types. It’s … Read More
SWOT with Your Spouse
Right now, we’re in full swing getting ready for Christmas next week. (If you’re still looking for gifts for your spouse, click to this post that will give you some ideas.) I hope you have a … Read More